So, my partner and I haven’t really been “going out” for the past, say, 10-11 months? And of course before that it was sporadically due to the pandemic and shutdowns/etc. But I noticed that since I stopped drinking, he only drinks occasionally and socially when we get together with friends on the weekend or goContinue reading “The death of the “Going Out” post sobriety.”
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The Secret to Being Happy that no one’s talking about.
Name 3 things right now in your life that make you happy. Are those things permanent? For example, if they are material items, will they last forever? Can they be taken away, or eventually breakdown? Are they people? Will those people Always be there, or are they fallible as well? Even if you have anContinue reading “The Secret to Being Happy that no one’s talking about.”
I just want to Be ME, me and.. me.
I woke up this morning and had this exact thought ( I wrote it down): 𝙄 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙈𝙀. 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙜𝙤𝙤𝙙 𝙚𝙣𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝 𝙚𝙭𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙡𝙮 𝙖𝙨 𝙄 𝙖𝙢. 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚, 𝙤𝙧 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙩𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝… It was SO eye-opening to me toContinue reading “I just want to Be ME, me and.. me.”
Spiritual junkie?
I was addicted to spiritual training for years. It sounds healthy, right? Learning about different modalities and absorbing knowledge from others about what spirituality is and how to find/interpret/work with it. Well, Yes, and No. Starting out in your path, it can be incredibly helpful to be around others who can guide you toward yourContinue reading “Spiritual junkie?”
Radical Acceptance- And letting go.
What if we could radically accept ourselves exactly as we are? We do this with nature! And mothers do this with their children quite often. I recently found a parallel to help explain why doing this makes so much sense… It’s this past weekend. I am going into the ocean, (in May, in California) andContinue reading “Radical Acceptance- And letting go.”
More than “good enough”
“What is standing in the way of you teaching Tantra right now?” I saw the question lingering in front of me like one of those thought-bubble clouds. It was a question to the group, but now I had a chance to investigate, to go inside and really feel into it. The answer came immediately inContinue reading “More than “good enough””
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